Life and the World

Hello Bro. I try not to butt-in but it is hard not too, if I have something to say.

My sincerest apologies if I offend you with what I have to say, but here goes...

If I were you, I would wait for the baby to arrive. She needs all the support she can get, especially from you.

First time Mom and Dad is the most wonderful time of my married life.

I would stay at least a year after the baby's born because of two things...

One. I definitely want to spend time with my baby to see him/her grow up as the first year is critical to me.

Second. She may experience post-natal depression. So being there by her side is a tremendous help than an undue stress with you not around, but worse - in a far away land, in a not-so-safe environment.

The strong urge to help people is the utmost unselfish act in my book, I admire you for that. I wish I have that strong a conviction, but to me, family should come first, then do your patriotic duty to your country and then human-kind. In that order.

That is at least how I view it and would do it.

There will be opportunities for you to perform your AI and help others. God bless you for even thinking about it.

Honestly, you should talk to her about your plan, as now, your decision affects your family too.

Talk to have her blessings, not convince her to follow your way, she it from her view.

Reaching a decision wholeheartedly and mutually agreeing on the matter, whatever the outcome may be.

Again, my apology for intruding and sounding like Mr. Know-it-all. That is just how I will approach it.

Hope this helps. Take care.

To me, there should be more people like you in the world. It will be a better place. One person can make a lot of difference.
 

You are right though I should wait until the baby is older I want to see hime walk and talk and I want to make sure my wife is ok so I will wait a year and talk to her about it then. Thanks for the help.